Conflict

People often experience conflicts between different values in certain situations.
“I want to be kind, but I also want to be honest.”

“ I want to be honest, but I also want to have friends.”

A simple change that can have a profound impact — replace the word “but” with “and.”
“I want to be kind, and I want to be honest.”
“I want to be honest, and I also want to have friends.”
“But” separates experiences  and tends to erase or discard whatever precedes the “but.”
“And” joins experiences and acknowledges both.

More Guilt and Values Conflicts @ http://realpeoplepress.com/blog/guilt-and-values-conflicts

If, right now, you think of something that you want to do later, how do you program yourself, so that in fact you will do it at the appropriate time?